Only Death Should Do You Part
March 20th, 2010
Only death should be part
; E ‘was a sad news that I read this morning – 50 to 55%. time in modern India of the marriages end in divorce!
I was inspired to write this article, not only to save marriages, but also to make them last ’till death do them part. ‘
My wife and I have been married for 56 years and we look forward to celebrating our Diamond Jubilee in 4 years from now, will Lord. So, what I have to say about marriage should mean a lot to you and you need to listen and pass my words.
There is a saying in India that “Marriages are Made in Heaven”. I think people in other parts of the world, that he would go too slowly. For my part, I really and honestly believe in this axiom. Why do not you take that “Marriage has no place, no matter which faith you belong to, unless it has been ordained by God” This is not funny, folks. It ‘absolutely true. In your case, call the number of proposals have gone before you put on your spouse today. Why do not experience such problems? Why do not things happen according to your expectations and desires? Why did some of your fall and proposal through the case, or at the last moment? Perhaps these events have taken a dive, because God had a hand in everything. Did not want you to go ‘through a bad marriage’ and, therefore, had an abortion before it is born.
God wants you to have a good marriage, a perfect marriage and, therefore, choose the right bride for you. If you jump with joy that your marriage has been finalized and so date, you need to thank God for choosing the right life – partner for you and your wedding is imminent his sanction.
those circumstances, is it not incumbent on you to stick to your spouse for life? If you had thought that, after tying the nuptial knot, married life is smooth sailing, you are mistaken. This is a joint mission. Both of you have to put your hands together and pull through. You can not go his way again after the wedding. Do you have a partner. We must take him / her with you in everything.
Viewed from all angles, every wedding invitations for adjustments. Both could come from different backgrounds, from a different social structure, from different ways of raising, by two opposite directions. It does not matter now that you’re together and we should be shot with perfect timing, you must adjust and adapt to a joint performance whatever may be the price. . Imagine, they both are drawing a wooden cart to reach the point of arrival. (The end point of this is your ‘death’), Will moving truck with the effort of one person? He needs four hands and two bodies. Someone from above would certainly remember that, “Hang on, do not give up, even if later I’m tired, I will give you strength, but only if they both decided to pull the thing until the end.” Such performances together requires some adaptation and balance on your part, a sort of ‘give and take’ policy. Not claim that you gave a little ‘and the others should give up an equal amount. Nothing like that at all. The cart must keep moving and that’s what counts. You can not discard a half. The trolley shall advance. A voice that calls for maintaining and giving you direction. You can not close our ears to him, that voice kindly. Your ultimate goal being, of living together come what may, we must accept sacrifices different. The cost does not matter at all.
Remember my children, a great reward awaits you in the next world, a reward far greater than you ever dreamed of.
On the other hand, if you think a divorce, hoping that the next would be better, he finds himself deep in the wrong. Do not throw away the better and opting for the best or the second or third best nth better? If nothing else, your wedding next May be worse than the first. Non A divorced person is not welcome in Indian society. You would become a cheap materials that can be purchased at the lowest price. It could also be an object of ridicule in every part of society.
God had not planned to divorce in its design parameters. According to the story, the divorce was introduced about 4000 years ago by the prophet Moses. He did it in disgust listening to people with complaints against the spouse. God, who was very fond of Moses had put his stamp on the concept label, even if reluctantly.
divorce is not used ad libitum, even in that period and has remained a law of paper up to a few recent years. Things have changed since then. The latest statistics show 50 to 55%. Is not a sin? Ask any divorced if he / she is happy in their present state. You get a positive response from less than 1%. In their heart of hearts that he would feel that they should not have voluntarily stopped the first marriage. Such regrets are too late. You can not get back what you’ve hunted.
The first marriage is the marriage better. Stick. It work. Surely you can do this work if you are determined. E ‘in your power. And so easy too. You would get great pleasure and experience the tremendous joy, if you manage to keep your first union of tact. Would please God very well. E ‘Waiting for God which a man and a woman should live together, do everything together, and reproduce and attack each other. The only thing that must be separated from the other is ‘dead’ and no other incident, more or less.
follow this philosophy of life, and I would find you’re well together as a couple. Erase the memory of any disagreement or minor / major fights in the next. Never argue with your spouse and only agree, without any loss of face.
Never think of a tit for tat. Forget any bad episode, like it never happened. Everything that appears uncomfortable between the two of you, is to forget as quickly as possible. The most important is to remove such a dirty word EGO from your list of vocabulary.
What is important is to live in one flesh, in perfect harmony with the purpose of gathering the right of first prize from the hands of God
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Israel Jayakaran
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